When there is a certain "force that gets you into a bad state," and the closer you get to a bad state, the stronger that force becomes, once you cross a certain boundary you are no longer [I can't get out of it.
What falls into a black hole can no longer be taken out. It is being (too) late. Any effort to retrieve it will be futile, and the effort must be abandoned.
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