<ul>
<li>Paradox of <a href="/en/expectation">expectation</a> and [reaction</li>
<li>Title given by GPT4</li>
</ul>
Some people get angry when others do to them what they did to others.
Some people get angry when others don&#39;t do to them what they did to others.
Examples of the latter
<ul>
<li>I fawned over my elders when I was younger.</li>
<li>I <a href="/en/expected">expected</a> young people to flirt with me when I was their elder.</li>
<li>But it didn&#39;t, and I was angry.</li>
</ul>
That person would describe someone who has friendly relations with young people as &quot;flirting with youth.&quot;
<ul>
<li>I judge my relationships with people based on whether they are <a href="/en/flirtatious">flirtatious</a> or flirtatious.</li>
</ul>
Examples of the former
<ul>
<li>Say what you think is wrong is wrong, no matter who the other party is.</li>
<li>When you are told you are &quot;wrong&quot; <a href="/en/get%20angry">get angry</a>.</li>
</ul>
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The Paradox of Expectation and Reaction